Do girls have to maltreat guys to test their seriousness?
H i guys, I'm really heavy on this consistency stuff now. Thanks for the love. I couldn't do it without you. I'd try to post every Tuesday.
This week I had something else lined up but then I watched BBN with my elder sister sometime last week. It was at night and most housemates that are booed up were in each other's bed. Then there's this donce (Ozo) laying upside down on his bed so he could hold Nengi's hand (who was in another bed).
You trust me to go off. I immediately went off cause whattt!. Why is he be Joing a mumu?. Why can't he see she doesn't want it?. Why are you trying so hard?. Why can't you just leave?. Why will you be this patient?. WHERE IS YOUR DIGNITY AS A MANNN?.
But then my sister had a different view. She thought it was right. In her words "a guy should SUFFER for what he wants". I couldn't understand. I like you and you like me but I have to suffer for you to act like you like me(which you really do)?. Make it make sense.
She had a solid point in "you don't want to come off as too cheap". But then you can play hard to get for 2 years and still get dumped(menascum). Nothing is an absolute. Either Ways I thought the idea that a man has to chase a woman around is crazy. At least if you will make me chase you about (which I'm not patient enough to do) give me clear signs that I'm not wasting my time to feed your ego and entertain you.
Many marriages start off with the woman shooting her shot and getting the guy's attention, he realises they click and taa daa (yea not every guy will be like that tbh).
Yunno thinking a guy always has to chase you really leads to women not getting with guys that they want but the ones that are available(there's the Shiloh part too sha). I mean if your crush doesn't notice you, you'll just wait there and hope one day he will, followed by 2 years of chasing you and 2 years of courtship, Kuku just give him a Bsc on your wedding day.
Oh well, maybe it's just me.
What do you guys feel?
Well, i really don't get the drill with seriousness testing Sha. Maybe it's a tactical approach😂. I feel, who go like u quick go like u. Different strokes for different folks. But even if u test till eternity, u cant have a "perfect picture" of someone's personality imo
ReplyDeleteLol yunno. Na just cruise. If e go run, e go run
DeleteYou knowwwww I thought it was just me lol.
ReplyDeleteAbeg Shiloh dey hold this year ?😂😂 I want to "register" a friend🤡
Lmao. Boya iz e-shiloh
DeleteI feel like it's a princess mentality where d Prince has to go through quests to prove himself worthy of her love. But what I don't get is why you'd have him sticking around for so long when you're hoping for another, is it part of the suffering?
ReplyDeleteOmo ehn. I don't know. But this isn't a fairy tale. It's real life with real problems. I can't drop them to ride off into the sunset to get a dragon tooth to prove my love to you.
DeleteI disagree with your sister, I see no reason why he has to suffer first. Is she some kind of prize to be one in the sufferhead Olympics?
ReplyDeleteIf you like someone and they like you and you both know it then go forth and enjoy
Thank YOU!!
DeleteLmao 😂 It’s not exactly “suffering”. Although, a lot of females overdo it. Mostly, it’s just about being careful enough to pick the right person to be committed with so it doesn’t end in tears.
ReplyDeleteLool yea yea... It's a quite solid approach but it doesn't mean it won't end in tears too. Save us both the stress
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